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What Does an Intimacy Coach Actually Do? A Guide for Austin Clients

If you've searched "intimacy coach in Austin," you may be wondering what actually happens in a session, and whether it's right for you. Here's an honest answer.

What is an intimacy coach?

An intimacy coach helps you feel safer, more present and more confident in connection: with your body, with a partner, and with yourself. Talk therapy mostly looks back at the past. Intimacy coaching is practical and experiential. We practice the skills right there in the session.

What do we work on together?

Clients come to me to:

  • ✦Feel safe in your body, and safe to be seen
  • ✦Rebuild confidence after shame or a setback
  • ✦Address blocks to arousal with compassion and curiosity
  • ✦Get support with ejaculation and performance worries
  • ✦Create connection that feels nourishing, not like a performance
  • ✦Explore desire, devotion and surrender, or an outside connection, without judgment

How I work

My approach blends nervous system awareness, sensual embodiment and Internal Family Systems (IFS). I also draw on Circling, Authentic Relating, Non-violent Communication and hypnotherapy. My background includes serving as a U.S. Air Force medic, working in social services, and over 20 years in the erotic arts. Read more about me.

Is it right for you?

If you're tired of performing, chasing or proving, and want connection that feels real, it may be. You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what you want.

Where sessions happen

In person in Austin, virtually anywhere, or in your city through Fly Me To You. See all sessions and rates.

Your first step

Book a 15-minute Curiosity Call ($45) to see whether we're a good fit.